In Lucknow Man Fleeing Wife Tortures, Work as Bus Helper due to Domestic abuse

A poignant story of domestic abuse has come to light from Lucknow, where a man named Amit Kumar, driven to desperation by his wife’s alleged harassment, chose to flee his home and abandon his government job.

The Escape from Abuse

Amit Kumar, who previously worked at the Lucknow Railway Carriage and Wagon Workshop, found himself trapped in an unbearable situation at home. His wife, Swarnima Devi, filed a missing person’s report in 2021, claiming he had been kidnapped. However, the reality was far more unsettling.

Unable to cope with the constant torment, Amit left his stable government position and sought refuge in anonymity. He began working as a helper in a private bus company, a sharp departure from his former life. For the past 1.5 years, he has been living and working away from home, finding solace in his new role.

Discovery and Revelation

Sub-Inspector Shubham, who handled the case, explained how Amit was eventually traced:
“Using a seven-year-old photo and a deactivated phone number provided by his wife, we located him in Ashiana. Amit confessed that he had fled home due to his wife’s harassment and had no intention of returning,” said the SI.

A Hidden Issue: Domestic Abuse Against Men

This incident highlights the often-overlooked issue of domestic abuse against men. While discussions around family violence and abuse predominantly focus on women, Amit’s story underscores the importance of acknowledging and addressing abuse regardless of gender.

Key Takeaways:

1. Support Systems for Male Victims: Men experiencing abuse often face societal stigma, making it difficult for them to seek help.
2. Mental Health Implications: Cases like Amit’s reveal the psychological toll abuse takes, often driving victims to extreme measures.
3. Raising Awareness: It is crucial to create an environment where abuse victims—male or female—can report their experiences without fear of judgment.